Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Finally I know what to blog about today.
Thanks to VJ for falling sick.
Lol!
This is gonna be a long post yo!

How many of you actually know what is the meaning of
"love-sick"?
Here is the definition of love-sick according to the Urban Dictionary.

~Love Sick~
A deep, often depressing, feeling of wanting to find love; to be loning for love; to be without a companion to share ones life with, though it is desired deeply.

So deeply affected by love as to be unable to act normally. You awake every morning, thinkin on your love, having dreamt of them all night, the pain of separation searing your heart every time a song or something else brings back the memory of your last encounter. Daydreaming, drawing hearts in the sand, constantly thinking "I wish they were here so I could share this moment" even when you are doing the most simple thing. The consuming fire within the heart for even one more moment with ones love that defies rational thought, knowing full well, one moment would never be enough, yearning for eternity together. 

Without a partner, lover, etc: To be tired of love, to miss being in love, to be heartbroken, to want someone to love, to want to be loved back. With a partner, lover, etc: To miss your lover, to want to be with them more, to want to see them, to not be able to keep your mind off them.

So deeply affected by love as to be unable to act normally. It may be reciprocated or unreciprocated.
When it comes to studies or work, you get distracted and misfocus easily cos the face of your crush appears in your mind every millisecond.
Your mind is preoccupied with thoughts of s/he. 

You will eventually begin to find it hard to enjoy your everyday life and would rather be alone and think of s/he.
Slowly, your social life and you school/work life will be affected.
You will be more interested in the person's life more than the lives of the people around you, in fact, your 99.999% of your mind is filled with thoughts of him/her. 

Whenever you are out of your house, you will hope to see him/her. Unknowingly, after your work/school, you will appear at places where both of you met or the places where you think s/he might have a higher possibility of appearing.
You begin to be very conscious about your every move and seem to be always smiling when you are near him. 

You will begin to have a terribe habit of trying to "overananalyzing" the person's every move, finding evidence that s/he is secretly in love with you too. 

When you start to think that s/he might not even know your existence or might not even like you a tiny puny bit, you become unreasonably depressed.
You start to lose concentration on many things and find it hard to make decisions in everyday life.

To be lovesick is to deviate from physical and emotional 'normality'. In other words, you walk around like the walking dead, feeling empty, chest crushing, longing for that special someone. That special someone doesn't have to be a love interest. It could be a relative you've loved and lost, it could be a friend you've loved and have separated from. 

When you're lovesick, you dream and think about person that a lot. Of course, that is just another symptom of love sickness. 

To be lovesick means to suffer from an unrequitted love or deception.
Love sickness has its own symptons, such as insomnia, depression, loss of appetite, loss of interest in everyday life and work, obsessive thoughts, mental intrusions and a frequent inclination to cry.


"Don't believe the other definition that has all those thumbs up for saying it is being in love and "drawing hearts in the sand" and stuff, because that is the opposite, that is lovestruck, not lovesick"
This feels so true.
I started this post with a humorous mood just wanting to tease VJ.
But as I read along,it sounded more and more like me.
Well not entirely.
SOME of it.
Just in case you did not know,
I don't stalk the person that I love.
In fact,the more I love a person,
the more insignificant he seems to be in my life.
But the truth is only within myself.
I hope you guys can get something out of this post.
Goodnight peeps.
Loves.
*I'm not love drunk.I am love sick*

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